Monday, September 14, 2009

Musing No. 22 - Thirty Days of FUCKING!

Hubby and I have always had great chemistry sexually. Our sexual relationship has been very passionate from the moment we met. It was somewhat of a struggle to keep our libido‘s in check so that we could also focus on evolving our emotional relationship.

However, sometimes the stuff of life can produce roadblocks. This has been the case more so than we would like in the last year. It is anticipated and expected when you have a baby a couple’s time for intimacy will be directly affected. When coupled with other stressors such as moving and hubby returning to school it can have a noticeable impact.

We are by far ahead of the curve. We enjoy a good fucking at least a few times a week. We have maintained our outside sexual relationships to some degree (these have of course been affected both by having an infant in the home and more recently by our move out of state). Most importantly we still have that passion, are in sync, and it still feels fucking amazing.

However, we realize it can be a slippery slope. Along with other aspects of your relationship, passion can easily fall by the way side. Hubby and I are aware that if we are not diligent we could easily slip into a rut.

Truthfully we simply are not where we would like to be within the sexual and intimate side of our relationship. We have allowed outside influences to sneak up on us. While our expectations are not unrealistic, the days of fucking 2 to 3 times a day will have to be put on hold until our daughter is older, we could use a jolt in the frequency department.

With that being said, we have determined to fuck at least once daily for the next 30 days. Also, just to add a twist and supercharge our fuck fest we are focusing on delving into new fantasies and experiences.

I know we are both UP for the challenge! *Wink*

1 comment:

  1. We look forward to your upcoming posts on your 30 day challenge! Have fun.

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