Friday, July 31, 2009

Musing No. 5 - You might be a swinger if...

your coworkers are convinced you have no social life because you always change the subject when they ask about your weekend.

when your coworkers talk about their sex lives, it takes a real effort not to yawn.

your guy friends invite you to a strip club and you ask if it would be ok to bring your wife.

you’ve got a bunch of pictures of the two of you in a hotel room wearing brightly colored wristbands.

your kids see your online Christmas card list and want to know who are “two4fun”, “allwaysready”, and “carresusboth”.

your girlfriend wonders why you have both birth control pills and condoms in your purse.

your Saturday night babysitter wonders why mommy already had her coat on when she comes out of the bedroom.

your boss wonders why you’re going to Orlando or Las Vegas “in the middle of summer for God’s sake!”

you both wonder if the sexy lady who just walked past you would like to mess around.

you make plans to meet a “straight” couple at a nice restaurant, and realize you have absolutely nothing you can wear.

the drugstore clerk wonders what you’re going to do with four bottles of Scope, three-dozen condoms, and five bottles of Astroglide.

And the best way to tell that you might be a swinger is…

your neighbors wonder why they aren’t invited to any of your parties. And why most of your guests arrive carrying pillows, towels, and overnight bags!

Hope everyone has a fun and safe weekend!!!! ~Kisses & Licks

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Musing No. 4 - Happy HNT "Half-Nekkid Thursday"

I love my ass. Correction. I love my ass being played with. Regrettably I was not blessed with the round luscious buttocks that I often lust after. Nonetheless I enjoy my ass and the many pleasures to be found in anal play. The backdoor can be much like a fine wine. It can be an acquired taste and either you love it or you hate it. I l-o-v-e it!

Last week, during our pleasure retreat, hubby and I made the rounds to our favorite sex shops. I am somewhat of a regular and I love adding a few gadgets to our love making from time to time. I love trying new toys and accessories but this time my search was focused. I especially enjoy the feel of a plug, fit snuggly in my tight pink ass, while I ride a thick hard cock. There is no better feeling and is sure to send me over the edge in moments. Mmmm…

Tuesday, July 28, 2009

Musing No. 3 - Introduction Part Deux

I am beautiful.

I am luscious and curvaceous.

I am rebellious, I think for myself.

I am rich with passion & love.

I am a sexual goddess.

I am a mama & a wife.

I am in control of my destiny.

I am a free spirit, a butterfly.

I sparkle and shine.

My life is DIVINE!

This is just a taste of who I am… I am 30 years old, very happily married with a gorgeous baby girl. We are your average American family; we are contributing members of society, we pay our taxes, we recycle and we go to church on Sundays. I am the girl next door. I just happen to have an above average interest in sex and kink; I am bi-sexual, I love women, my hubby and I enjoy our version of an open marriage, I enjoy my sexual gadgets and am a firm believer that everyone could use a good spanking from time to time.

Photo Credits: Statue by French sculpture Raoul Josset. Though it may not have been Josset’s intention the sculpture has become a symbol for feminism and can be found in front of The Women’s Museum in Dallas Texas. “The Woman’s Museum is an affiliate of the Smithsonian. The museum uses the latest technology and interactive media in it’s exhibits and programs to enlighten visitors as to the role of women in shaping America’s history.” It is a must see!

Musing No. 2 – TMI Tuesday / Non-sexual addition

I love the concept of TMI Tuesday! It’s reminiscent of being in high school again and doing those quizzes that begin with listing the time.

1. The three words that best describe you are passionate, determined, and independent.

2. The three words that best describe your life are fulfilled, adventurous, and optimistic.

3. Your three guilty pleasures are coffee, sexy women, and wine. (Can anything pleasurable really be ‘guilty’?)

4. The three places you would like to visit before you die are Paris, Venice, and London.

5. The three things you would like to do before you die are learn to speak French, fuck outside in the rain, and get published.

Bonus (as in optional):If you were making Chris Milk's video "Last Day Dream" (below) what three to five flashes would be your life so far?

Hmmm…this one was a bit more difficult…just because it would be intense…

Fucking a woman the first time, my 1st hubby’s death, my wedding day, the birth of my daughter…

However, I am only 30 years old...there is still plenty of life left to live. I hope to have some amazing flashes come my way!

TMI Tuesday

Monday, July 27, 2009

Musing No. 1 - Introduction of sorts...

Recently, during some much-needed spring-cleaning, I came across an old set of Tarot cards I had purchased in my early twenties. I decided to give ‘em a whirl. Hubby and I have had some hefty decisions to make of late and it couldn’t hurt to see what the Cosmos have in mind for us.

I shuffled the cards and followed the layout instructions. The final card drawn provides insight as to what your next course of action should be. Hmmm…

III The Empress


Express your ideas and take calculated risks. Getting what you want is your responsibility. Your passions are of primary importance to you now.

Ah, the God’s have spoken! My passions and pleasure are of top priority! I fully intend to take their advice and thoroughly enjoy myself!!!

In fact Hubby and I set aside some time last week to do just that. We enjoyed several hedonistic days to ourselves. I began our pleasure break with a much-needed trip to the salon. Nothing makes a girl feel more sexy or luscious than a color, cut and blowout. Followed by a decadent spa day with massage, mani & pedi; I never felt better!

Of course it wouldn’t be a truly hedonistic retreat if we did not dedicate some serious time to fucking. We added a few new goodies to our repertoire after visiting a few of the local sex shops. After many hours locked away in the bedroom we emerged sweaty, tired and satiated. Mmmm…